hitam itu subjektif...

that's new!!
slalunye zara dgr org ckp cantik itu subjektif..
but yesterday..
kwn zara ckp, hitam tu subjektif..
this fren of mine, br jer get engaged with her lover..nice couple i think...
when she came 2 my room, we started talking bout heart n guy...
hehe...
ok, make it simple, my fren is so beautiful..(dis is my personal opinion..)
n her fiance is a dark tall guy.. (n i also think dat dat dark is ok 4 me..)
but how for others?? do they think they same..??
so i ask her..
pnh x terfikir yg u deserve somone yg lain..not the better..(who knows if u r better than the other rite..??) but a better looking person..(he's ok..but i think our frens owez talk bout his dark skin...)
n she answered...aku ni cantik sgt ke..nk cr yg hensem2 sgt...??bg aku,die tu putih,n hitam tu subjektif...titik.
titik tu bermakna zara faham.
it's all about acceptance...
n mindset...
biasalah..klu kita sukakan bnda yg cantik2...tu lumrah hidup...
tp the reality is x semua bnda cantik...tp mgkin blh jd cantik klu kita buat modification kt mind kita..
xpun kita buat some adjustment kt application of the things..
klu nk difikirkan x puas hati..
mmg la..zara sgt2 x puas hati...
like one of zara nye kwn...
disebabkan cantik, senang sgt nk dpt boyfren...
n of course die dpt buat plhn bila dh ade byk pilihan kn..??
untungnye bila yg dtg tu ade kerja bagus..rupa bagus..perangai pn bagus...
bile kenyataannye rmi lelaki cr yg cantik2 dan cerah2..
pastilah girl2 yg kurang cantik x dipandang...ataupun x perasan pn ade...
maka pilihan pn xde...
bila zara susah hati sal ni...
that fren la yg buat zara positive..
mmg betul..it's all about acceptance..plus...itu lah yg terbaik untuk kita...ok??